Making choices is one thing tht i dread rather much. Its queer cos dont ppl always say having a choice beats having no choice at all? Idk why, but for me, Id rather I dont have to choose and things will still turn out pretty alright. I guess this is largely due to my indecisiveness and fear of making the wrong choice. I cld rlly belong to the most indecisive lot of the world sometimes. and I feel this was in me since birth. I rmb daddy teling me tht on my first bday, Mommy sat me down on the floor with 4 diff things spread out in front of me-writing pens,colourful paintbrushes,money & toys. Whichever I picked is supposed to depict what will my inclination be in future. and daddy says I reached out to all of them! See what I meant! Though eventually I chose the money and toys to play with, it still portrays the lack of strong judgement. This may be a gross conclusion and too harsh on a one-year-old? but well, this is still instilled in me at 18 :/ Im still swaying with influences and my "Ive made up my mind" was nv 100% confident. I hate tht im always having second thoughts and its tearing me up sometimes. I struggle to make a decision and regret after its been decided. URGH D:Anyhow, I sense the urgency to correct it or somehow twitch it before Friday comes. Its a big day where Ill have to make impt decisions cos its gna be a major turning point in my life and i cant afford to steer in the wrong direction,can I ? Soooo, I need to start thinking and start planning alr(yes i havent) but how? i dont even dare think abt it. H.O.W!Give me a way
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